Critical End-of-Life Communication
By Mary Beth Happ, PhD, RN, FGSA, FAAN
Providers must help direct treatment decisions and facilitate patients’ and/or families’ choices via compassionate communication.
Comprehensive, timely, and person-centered communication may be the most important intervention geriatric practitioners provide to older adults and their family caregivers, particularly as patients with life-limiting illness approach transitions to end-of-life care. The need to improve patient-provider communication at the end of life is, in fact, the topic of several national initiatives, such as Geritalk, Oncotalk, and The Conversation Project.
Although older patients with multiple chronic conditions often survive and thrive for years after episodic acute events, an untoward event or new diagnosis may present an opportunity to reevaluate goals of care. The difficult challenge for practitioners “in the context of drug discovery and improved life expectancies is a lack of clarity regarding disease progression”1 and thus recognition of end-stage illness. For many elderly and critically ill patients, practitioners may present a treatment plan that includes invasive and painful tests without fully explaining or considering what such tests may disclose or the treatment options the results may indicate.
The burdens of diagnostic procedures and complex treatment in end-stage illness may extend to appointment scheduling, transportation, side effects, additional medications, aftercare, recovery time, and out-of-pocket expenses. Therefore, it is important for practitioners to be judicious in treating older adults with end-stage disease when testing and procedures may be painful and even futile.
Key Exchange of Information
Preferences for information and shared decision making regarding life-sustaining treatments vary considerably among seriously ill patients and their family members who serve as decisional surrogates.3,4 Moreover, participation in decisions to discontinue or withdraw life-sustaining treatments can result in symptoms of anxiety, depression, posttraumatic stress disorder, and complicated grief in family members who serve as decisional surrogates, lasting several months to years after a patient’s death.5
How then should practitioners address decisional conversations when chronic disease processes become end stage or new illnesses emerge that signal the end of life? What approaches balance truth with hope and compassion?6 I suggest utilizing these precepts of gerontology and individualized care for frail elders to guide communication and decision making: know the person; engage in relational communication; provide for patient-family participation and choice; and ascertain the meaning behind words and behaviors.7
Know the Person
An elderly patient initially may favor an invasive diagnostic procedure (eg, surgical biopsy) when facing the uncertainty of a less definitive diagnosis (eg, a mass). However, the risks of infection, bleeding, pain, and immobility must be presented in conjunction with discussions of the potential benefits the diagnostic information would confer. The practitioner bears responsibility for considering whether a patient truly is a viable candidate for surgery, radiation, or chemotherapy and including this judgment in deliberations.
Knowing the person requires ascertaining what is important in the older adult’s life; what constitutes his or her daily living; and his or her perceptions of quality of life. Quality time spent engaged with grandchildren or experiencing a treasured family vacation may be more important to a devoted grandmother than the chance of prolonging her life by a few months spent in aggressive treatment that requires isolation from small children.
Knowing the person does not require hours of dialogue or reminiscence. Selective use of open-ended queries during history taking, systems review, and psychosocial assessment, rather than strict adherence to a yes/no electronic checklist, can accomplish this goal. As practitioners, we often feel that we control the relationship. Sharing relational control and letting the older person tell us is very useful. Astute geriatric practitioners employ observations of the patient’s environment (eg, a photograph, sweater, TV show) to connect to and learn something unique and potentially important about the patient.
Finally, knowing the person is essential to realize the palliative and hospice care goal of living well at the end of life. The compassionate geriatric practitioner will ascertain the patient’s view of living well and then coordinate care in ways that optimize wellness at the end of life.
Engage in Relational Communication
Acute-critical illness produces stress and anxiety and can leave a patient without a voice (as in the case of respiratory tract intubation) and/or unable to participate in treatment choices, (eg, sedation, delirium, or other mental status changes). Nevertheless, good relational communication techniques can go a long way in building trust and facilitating positive decisional communication with patients and/or family surrogates. Communication techniques that apply to patients with communication impairments can be found in the sidebar below.
Simple communication tools such as notepads and pens, alphabet or picture-word boards, hearing aids or amplifiers, glasses or magnifiers, flashcards, and iPads can help patients respond to practitioners, initiate questions, and communicate essential messages.8,9 Speech language pathologists and translators can help assess communication function and plan communication strategies appropriate to facilitate crucial conversations.8
While the assistive communication tips listed above both are commonsense and common courtesy, I have observed and experienced countless instances in which these basic communication practices are not used and even are abused. My mother, sisters, and I gently and persistently remind and coach practitioners about how to speak to my 88-year-old hearing-impaired father, who is cognitively intact and competent to make his own decisions. Although he wears hearing aids, my father misses words spoken in low or soft tones, and sounds run together or become garbled when speech is too rapid. When practitioners drop their voices at the end of a sentence, turn away as they speak, or talk several steps away from him, my father can miss or misinterpret the message.
Most often, practitioners acknowledge our communication advice, accommodate briefly, and then return to their usual pattern of speaking. My father’s condition is not unique; rather, it is emblematic of older people with hearing and other sensory impairments. Recently, he was unexpectedly diagnosed with a pancreatic mass highly suggestive of malignancy. An emergency department physician abruptly imparted the news to my mother, sister, and me without preamble, standing at the foot of my father’s bed. We suddenly were grateful for his hearing impairment.
Relational continuity with the patient and family at the end of life can be achieved by a home visit or a phone call from geriatric care providers to assuage feelings of abandonment or confusion about whether there is something missed or a treatment has not been done. Strategies to maintain hope include emphasizing what can be done (eg, controlling symptoms, maintaining function, offering favorite foods, fulfilling desired outings), exploring realistic goals, and focusing on the present day-to-day routine.10
Provide for Participation and Choice
Timing of information delivery also is important. Older individuals are not immune from the effects of information overload, and this is no more evident than during end-of-life care, treatment decision making, and care planning. Health care communication experts agree that patients “want to negotiate when and how information is given, but don’t want a greater amount of detail than they are ready to hear.”6 Patients and families want the geriatric practitioner to be open to discussing dying, but do not want to be pushed to talk about it before they are ready.11 Brochures and information packets that detail dying processes and what to expect should be used judiciously with appropriate timing and support.
All Behavior Has Meaning
Patients or family members may respond with negative emotion, which is natural. Evidence suggests that the most effective responses to patient expressions of negative emotion are neutral acknowledgments (“Yeah,” “I see”); statements explicitly focused on the emotion, such as empathic comments (“I’m sorry,” “That’s so hard”); or naming the emotion (“You seem really frustrated”).12 These responses serve to encourage further discussion of emotion.12
The road still is rough and not one that my family is eager to travel, but each encounter with a practitioner who employs good relational communication helps us endure.
— Mary Beth Happ, PhD, RN, FGSA, FAAN, is a dean’s distinguished professor and the director of the Center of Excellence in Critical and Complex Care and the Hartford Center of Geriatric Nursing Excellence at The Ohio State University College of Nursing in Columbus.
Relational Communication Techniques With Communication-Impaired Patients9
• Use slow, clear speech.
• Pause for 5 to 10 seconds to wait for responses.
• Augment spoken messages by writing key words, gestures, diagrams, or pictures.
• Validate or clarify understanding of the message.
Core Communication Skills6
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